Thursday, 11 August 2011

What I hate #1

This is a really hard post since I have a lot of things I hate.
  • When my roommate comes, home she expect me to stop what I am doing and come downstairs to greet her, wtf.  If you want to see if I am home, or want me to greet you can walk upstair and talk to me.
  • Video gamers: I do not like you sitting by the computer playing video games all day it is sick.  Yes there is a specific gamer that I dont like it is my brother.   
  • Money traps: giving money to servers, parking meters, try out fees, usage based internet billing (rogers, bell), initiation fee, new members fee, service fee, cover fee (entrance fee)
  • The mailman for packages coming at such odd times, when I am never home 
  • People that expect me to check my email or phone every 2.5 hrs and get mad when they couldn't reach me

Monday, 11 July 2011

Labels: who are you?

What is a label, by definition it is an adjective that helps you describe someone.  Those labels gives the viewer insight in what the person that is being described may be like.  These labels are socially constructed concepts that try define ones self.  These labels are characterizing you into some sort of an identity that you have, which I believe to be wrong; as I believe people are more complex than that. 

About two months ago I was looking for an apartment.  While looking at apartments I came across this quite shabby high rise apartment building, with a lingering cigar smell, stained carpets, trashed floors, and much more which I won't go into detail. What really bothered me was that the sales person said it was "student housing" which I asked her what that ment.  It means that by a social standing you should be accustom to living in a lower standard of living. 

What really bothers me is that society tries to give you labels that make a poor judgment on trying to define you. I would like to remove labels and socially constructed concepts about people, however in this society it seems that trying to change the world is futile. 

I will do what I will always do which is to give someone a chance.  I will be that opening in a circle to give that new person a chance despite what their label may be and I will treat each person individually. 

Monday, 20 June 2011

We need more male role models

In elementary and high school I had no teacher that I could look up to.  The male teachers I had were massively girly wearing pink clothes, acting like a freaking girl.  I would of really like a male role model who was independent, fix their own car, fix his own house, and be able to have respect for himself.

I think it is so important to have a male role model when growing up for it is someone who you model after yourself. 

Unions are the thing of the past

Unions are a thing of the past, they served their purpose in the past and now they are just a hindering to society.  With denying people to volunteer cause it takes away union jobs, keeping employment numbers low so they can have a higher salary, bankrupting a company for demanding crazy high salaries..ect

Feminism has taken over

In Canada and America it feminism has taken over they is such an advantage for women in society. 
Weakling guys bending over backwards for a girl
-buying them dinner
-getting used for drinks
-getting abused
-spending all night helping a girl study for an exam, when they are "just friends"

I am so sick and tired of the deceiving actions of women if they want something from you they would act all nice and shit and the minute they don't need you they toss you along the side of the road. 

NO HANDOUTS!

If you lived in a city I am sure this example happened to your before.  There would be someone coming to your car asking for money, when I believe that you should for what you get.  I have so many money problems but I don't go on the street begging for money asking for money. 
-gym membership 250/year
-food
-rent
-text books
-international schools fees (if i decide on this)

As for charities asking for money I am tired of giving them money when they dont accept me as a Volunteer for them! My money is good for you but not my time, so next time do not call.

Sunday, 19 June 2011

People telling me useless information

I have lost my patience with people and telling me useless information, my mask of sanity can last no more.  My roommate repeating tells me useless information and i proceed to tell him to shut up (not the best way of dealing with it) but i just so annoyed.

Situation 1:
him: Argh I am so itchy
me: why do i care...

situation 2:
him: i am hungry
me: so go make yourself some food (fridge and freezer full of food, even tv dinners so he can just microwave it)

ps. the roommate is my brother he is 16

Monday, 13 June 2011

Dam I need some more Extra Ciriculars

If I am going up against people with 90+ averages I really need to be awesome in my interview, mcat and extra ciriculars.

Hospital
I applied to York Central hospital and I have yet to hear from them the deadline for interview notice is June 18th, perhaps tomorrow I will stop by the volunteer center and ask them about it.

Research
I could also really use some research or lab experience should be asking professors and apply for a NSERC scholarship next school year.

Charity
I really need to get involved with some charity, do give something back to the community but dont know where to start.  I email St Johns ambulance but I heard nothing back (perhaps a follow up call I should do).  I wanted to do habitat for humanity but that is way to far to go on a constant basis, like a 45min drive to there depending on traffic.  I could always do a run/walk and raise money annually.. Suggestions of a charity involvement?

People and the Internet

A lot has changed with the internet from originally being available to the public in 1992 to present the year 2011.  There is so much you can do look up information, play games, share files, and communicate to people across the world.

I feel that with the ambiguity the internet it allows its users to act without regard to others, often being rude or disrespectful.  I am so tired of these "internet tough guys" acting so obnoxious online where through the form of youtube comments, facebook msgs, or even forums.

I feel as if I should give an example:

I sent a message to some asshole on the internet about buying some used books, if you search on craigslist or kijji you can probably find it still up.  So I was looking at a set of Agatha Christie books for sale, it was a good deal so I asked them if they were still available and then that asshole wrongly accuses me of being on and off for 3 months.  I then corrected the jerk and said it was my first time messaging him/her and I wanted to know if the books smell cause of smoke, then the person gives me a huge long rant about how she doesn't smoke, drink, eats 3 meals a day, the mayor of her town is hazel ect... defiantly not buying books from that person